Why am I resisting play? πŸ„πŸΎβ€β™‚οΈβœ¨πŸ§Ώ


Dear members

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I was going to write a post about the shame around some of the memories of my father's passing.

I realised that wasn't my medicine for this week.

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I want to remember the moments of play with him.

The BBQ with a water-fight.

The silliness of him not remembering the right things from the super market.

Going to Tesco's to get micromachines.

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We never played enough.

Life got too serious too quickly.

Something I am devoted to NOT happening with my own son.

With any devotion, it's practice.

And play requires that intention and practice for me.
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I resist play because..

It distances me and that isolation feels safe.

Allows me to live in my mind.

It makes me feel self-worthy as i'm 'doing'.

There's pleasure in feeling anxious (yes I own it).

I am living into my To Do List.

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When I play..

There are infinite possibilities.

I bring energy to every part of my life.

A rebellion starts and people follow.

(Anyone who went on a night out with me in my 20/30s can vouch for that)

I live into my Creation List not my To Do List.

Work and life is always more energised. ALWAYS.

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It's easier to resist play.. I'm meant to be an 'adult'

Who decided what an adult should be like?

Probably the industrial revolution!

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Gosh.

I am so glad I asked myself this question

Why am I resisting play?
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How did life get so serious?

How did life feel so serious?

How will I look at life, to make it feel more playful?

How will I look at life differently?

Where are MY possibilities for play?

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Come talk to me sometime about play - https://calendly.com/mo-belonging-people/connect​
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Today I remember

Play

Today I remember

I know how to play!

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Will you remember?

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